My trip

[chronyx]

Well, I haven't got around to making a detailed post about it...and I probably won't I'm afraid.

I'm now single after 4 and a half years so I have other things on my mind. Other half seems to be a bit in the head at the moment and isn't sure what to do about it so has split up.

I don't regret doing the trip for a second though. In fact, I wish now that I was still away...

[Pussyhorse]

Bad news chief.

Of course she's in the head. All females are!

[chronyx]

She wasn't. Could sit and have a conversation with her like I can any of my bloke mates. But she wasn't a horrible blokey ladette type girl.

Just wish it didn't feel so crappy.

[Cie]

Sheeeit,

That sucks, don't worry about us, you get away and get yourself and herself sorted out. We'll be here when the time is right.

Good luck

[Pussyhorse]

I had the same with my ex. About 5 years together. Could chat pish with the best of em without being a ladette. She was very :idea: :idea: in the head though.

Time is the healer. In the meantime wallow in self pity for a while, get pished, go out with your mates, **** a lot.

[chronyx]

Never dealt with anything like this before so cheers guys.

Was trying not to do the self pity thing but if it's part of the process so to speak I guess I'd better just get on with it!

Pussyhorse do you mind me asking if your ex had depression or anxiety?

[cabbage2404]

Sorry to hear about your situation, if you can get yerself over to the National meet i'll get you a drink in, and i'm sure i won't be the only one.

[Chad]

Never dealt with anything like this before so cheers guys.

Was trying not to do the self pity thing but if it's part of the process so to speak I guess I'd better just get on with it!

Pussyhorse do you mind me asking if your ex had depression or anxiety?

DUDE THATS BAD ****

my first wife turned out to have the above it may feel like **** now but take my advice

run and keep on running dont ever look back

have some (me !!!!) time get layed get pissed travel get it all out your system and just when you least exspect it someone real cool will come along abut in the mean time you would have had a ball

self pity dont work dude trust me

[chronyx]

Thanks all

[DaveS]

Really sorry to hear this.
Not a lot any of us can do, but talk as much as you want on here. Some people find that talking helps, and I'm on the end of a phone / email address / PM (delete as applicable) if you fancy a chat.
Equally come and visit for the day if you fancy it and I'll keep you entertained.